Sex Considerations (Boys & Girls)

Both boys and girls experience and perpetrate teen dating violence; often teens report that both partners committed aggressive acts during the relationship.¹ Studies focused on the rates of teen dating violence by sex have had inconsistent results. While some studies have found girls to be victims of teen dating violence at higher rates than boys,² others have found similar rates of aggression/victimization between boys and girls.³ According to the most recent Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance Survey System data the prevalence of dating violence victimization, defined as being hit, slapped, or physically hurt on purpose by their boyfriend or girlfriend during the 12 months before the survey, was higher among 11th-grade males than 11th-grade females.⁴

While findings of teen dating violence rates based on sex remain inconsistent, research suggests that girls seem to suffer disproportionately from severe violence in relationships (i.e., physical and sexual assault).⁵ For example, studies have found that adolescent girls are more likely than boys to be seriously injured or suffer sexual abuse as a result of dating violence.⁶ Additionally, data from the National Survey of Children’s Exposure to Violence (NatSCEV) conducted in 2008 found that girls seemed to be more afraid of teen dating violence victimization compared to other types of victimization than boys; in a list of 43 types of victimization, girls ranked teen dating violence 13th while boys ranked it 42nd.⁷

Research also suggests that girls and boys have different motivations for aggressive acts against their partners.⁸ In reviewing research on teen dating violence, Mulford and Giordano found that

• both boys and girls reported anger as the prime cause of their aggressive acts;
• girls were more likely to also report self-defense as a motivator for aggression; and
• boys were more likely to report the desire for control. ⁹

Further research suggests that boys rarely reported physical harm and were more likely to laugh off aggressive acts by their partner,¹⁰ while girls reported serious harm and physical injury and tended to suffer long-term negative consequences such as suicide attempts, depression, and substance use. ¹¹

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